It’s that time again!
I’ve got a niggling feeling inside that is screaming ‘fill me with adventure’. I’ve forgotten the pain of the last expedition and coated my memories with Insta filters and I’m itching for the next one. But where to go? What to do? The options are endless which should be exciting….but I don’t feel excited.
Instead, I feel a sense of dread. Because deciding what to do for your next adventure can be an annoyingly long and frustrating journey. Something that will keep me up for hours and mince my brain until it hurts because I. Just. Can’t. Decide. What. To. Do.
I call it adventure indecisiveness!
Breaking down adventure indecisiveness
I’ve got a little better at making decisions and ignoring that feeling that this is the last adventure I’ll ever do so it needs to be amazing.
Instead, I break it down into 2 stages. The first is actually coming up with new ideas. The second is honing in on those ideas and forming a complete expedition (which I will talk about in my next blog). So let’s focus on the first step – where do I find inspiration to come up with new adventure ideas in the first place?
Before we start…
This should be the creative and fun part of the process. So follow these 3 simple rules to stop frustrations creeping in too early…
1. Don’t worry about limitations yet
Practicalities, logistics, money, etc play a factor in the next stage. At this point, it is just about getting creative and letting your mind wander freely.
2. Write every idea down in a notebook
Journalling not only helps you sort through your thought process but looking back over ideas you had a year ago is a great tool to have to hand. Colours and doodles encouraged.
3. Stay positive
Trawling through limitless opportunities and seeing all the cool things other people are doing can go either way when it comes to your mood. This is meant to be a fun thing though so try to hold on to the good feelings and don’t get caught up with envy or feeling like you aren’t good enough.
What adventures have other people done?
I’ve already done a lot of the groundwork for you here as I put together 100+ adventure ideas – basically a list of 100+ people that have been on awesome adventures. I even use this list myself still.
Read through the list and see what catches your eye. Check out the websites and what other adventures they have been. It’s a great way to get the juices flowing and to work out what sort of things excite you.
Another great place to find out about other adventurers is on podcasts. I like to listen to:
Attend an adventure event
I think it’s impossible to attend an adventure event and not leave inspired and with new ideas brewing. There are so many to choose from. Here are some of the UK ones I can think of:
- Women’s Adventure Festival
- Base Camp Festival
- Sheffield Adventure Festival
- Kendal Film Festival
- Tales of Adventure
- Love Her Wild Weekend
- Night of Adventure
- RGS Explore
- Travel and Adventure Show
Follow the right people on social media
Following your favourite adventures on social media is a great way to ensure your feed in inspiration ready. There are so many to mention but to get you started, here are some adventurers that I follow….
Laura Try, Paul Everitt, Sophie Radcliff, Alastair Humphreys, the Meek Family, Anna McNuff, Jenny Tough, Mollie Hughes, Laura Kennington, Sean Conway, Sarah Outen, Tim Allen, Erin Bastian, Kat Hallam, Kiko Matthews, Dave Cornwaith, Jason Rawles, Wendy Searle, Adventures of Kate, Laura Bingham, Pip Stewart, Emma Timmis, Ness Knight, Justine Gosling, Cal Major, Phoebe Smith, Lizzie Carr, Zoe Homes, Megan Hine, Jo Bradshaw, Ash Dykes
Stare at a map
I’m not exaggerating when I say this – staring at a map for a prolonged period of time has become a weekly occurrence. Look for areas that draw your attention and for those countries that you always wanted to visit.
What interests you outside of adventure?
Quite often we think of adventures as getting from A to B but this is really limiting. There can be other focuses that dictate the journey you take (Justine Gosling and her Iron Curtain adventure is a great example)
Here are some alternative ideas:
- following in the footsteps of someone you admire or are interested in
- using a significant occurrence in history to plot your route
- going in search of something or someone (last year I visited my Grt Grt Grandads WWII grave for the first time…wouldn’t it of been great if I had tied that into an adventure!)
Think about things or people or stories that inspire you and write them down.
Search through opportunities
Volunteering, being a support for an expedition or joining a team is a great way to go on an advenutre. Seeing what else is out there will help spark new ideas and who knows what doors may open.
Check out my blog: Adventure opportunities to shake up your life
Think about adventuring for good
I recently wrote my thoughts and advice on going on an adventure for good cause and since then have started to think of more creative ways to be charitable with my expeditions. It is how I came up with the idea for Paddle Pickup (a Love Her Wild expedition kayaking the width of the UK picking up plastic pollution and raising awareness on the topic).
The obvious choice is using your adenture for fundraising. But there are other ways you can make your expedition count. How about carrying out research like Better Not Stop – on a mission to find out about happiness in the world. Could you connect your expedition to science research?
What about raising awareness on an important topic? Like Kate Ra\wles on her bamboo bike talking about conservation to anyone who will listen.
Or giving back in other ways. There’s conservation work – picking up plastic (have you seen the guy litter picking his way around the UK?) or maintaining tracks. Sharing your skills or services as you travel – check out Richard and the Glass Passport Project – swapping his photography skills for travel, accommodation and food).
Bounce ideas off others
Nothing beats meeting up with adventure folk to bounce ideas off each other. If you are wondering where you can find them, how about joining an adventure club like the Yes Tribe, Love Her Wild or Explorers Connect who all run meetups.
Or, if you prefer, join one of the many Facebook adventure groups where you can post your ideas and get others thoughts on the matter:
Get some fresh air, be in nature, get the blood flowing…..that’s where the magic really happens!
With your new ideas and inspiration for your next adventure, it’s time to be realistic…..Try asking these 7 questions to work out what the right adventure is to do next.
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*Any women reading this?* I founded a women’s adventure community called Love Her Wild. Check out our private Facebook page and see what adventures we have coming up.
Excellent article and loads of useful info too- I’ve found more groups to follow and events I didn’t know existed! Choice can be a very real problem… I have so many adventures I want to do but don’t know which one to do next, as if I do one, I can’t then do the other- although I guess it’s a nice problem to have!
Thanks Steph! It really can…I can drive myself mad feeling dizzy with all the options. Definietly a nice problem to have though 🙂
Hi Bex, just came across your blog and love it. I lived in Bristol for years – your kayak trip sounded amazing. Just wanted to say thanks for this blog. I’m itching for a big adventure but struggling to get the idea straight, and the guts to do whatever it is! This was really helpful advice.
Thanks so much Brooke!! Never ignore that itch for adventure 🙂
We are actually running another Paddle Pickup this year although will be kayaking the length of Wales this time (you can find the info on the adventures page on http://www.loveherwild.com) if you’re interested.
Let me know if you do head out on a big adventure…I’d love to hear more 🙂
Brilliant article, super useful as a starting point for inspiring adventure planning when you’re feeling a little overwhelmed.
Thanks Jessica – I’m really happy it helps!